I love the analogy to food allergies. I suffered from allergies to many foods for over 20 years, and there are a few foods my digestive system can’t handle. Like your son, I’ve made adjustments and continue on with life.

Several years ago, my husband became an adult diabetic. For food lover like him, the diet adjustments were slow in coming and emotionally painful for him. He resisted his medication and lifestyle adjustments, until his blood sugar levels were out of control. Now he’s on insulin shots twice a day. Since his wake-up call, he has begun reading to understand his disease and learning how to care for himself. He practices more self-control regarding his food intake, instead of resisting what he needs to do. The upside-down shift in his life is now more emotionally manageable to him.

I’ve observed that job seekers who have not have to search for a employment in many, many years, (often since their first job) struggle with a huge mental shift and a often a steep learning curve while they navigate the unfamiliar waters of today’s job search. It takes great effort to move past the old “come as you are” job hunting method that no longer works. It can be painful and confusing. They need new tools, information, and strategies to find a job. But, like your son and my husband, once they understand what is required and accept the changes they must make, the waters become less turbulent, and they navigate their career boat with more confidence and less emotional distress.

Kind regards,
~Kathy